just now, i have read some article about best friend. i'm so interested about how to be a great bestfriend. i'm very sure that everyone have a best friends so do i. that article state about 8 ways to be a very great best friends.there are.
1.be loyal- you must always tick up for you friend and trust them, no matter what. no matter how tempted you may feel to join another side or leave them by themselves, make sure you always come through for them and show them that you will always be loyal for them, if your best friend knows that, you are off to a good start.
2.listen-be agood listener. you know what, nobody likes a best friend who just talks and talks, but never listen. if you are a chatterbox, it is okay if you are also a good listener. whenever your best best friend says something, listen carefully and say something. do not just say "yeah" and move on. do not interupt or fidget continually while they are talking to you. if they ask for advice, listen carefully and give them the best advise you can. it will earn you respect ans of course, make them come to you more.
3.be trustworthy-if the tell you a secret, keep it. do not even leak it out to someone you know you can trust. a secret is a secret. do not gossip about your best friend, do not say anything that might turn into rumor, and do not do things that you know would upset them. for example, if you bothhad a crush on the same person and they asked you out, do not just say "yes". make sure you know your best friend is okay with it. things like that are sometimes hard to do, but if you want a solid friendship you have to be trustworthy.
4.stick up for them-sitting and watching your best friend get picked on or teased is definitely not going to earn you a brownie badge in best friends. if yourbest friend is getting seriously bullied and you are scared you will get hurt if you get involved, then get help from a teacher or parets. if you can stick up for them without getting harmed yourself, make sure you do so. sometimes you can feel totally better after being picked on when friend tells everyone else to shut up ad clear off.
5.spend time together- hang out pn the weekends every now and then, do some homework together, and chat during break at school. you do not have to live in each others' pockets, but make sure you spend some quality together with your best friend to make the friendship grow and become stronger.
6.be yourself-being yourself around someone is part of what makes you guys best friends. be best friends with someone who you know you can be yourself around, because it is not worth it trying to be someone you are not so you can be closer to someone. do not hold thing in either, so if you feel uncomfortable or have hard feelings against your best friend, talk about it with them. make things comfortable between you two, and you will both go through thick and thin together.
7.care for your best friend- if they are away from home, send them cards or cre packages to show that you care. if the are sick, call them and ask how they are doing. best friends care for each other . show them you appreciate their presence in your life. write them notes to show that you care and thankful for them and ask about your lives.share your own stories, but make sure you have time for them.
8.avoid expectations-if you are assume what best friends' roles are, you will get disapointed and frustrated. best friends are one of the most valuable friends you have, but they cannot help or support you in every aspectof your life. do not expect them to always be there, or expect them to say the thing you want to hear. if there are expectations your best friends need to reach, that will only leave you in a disapointing defeat.
so, i hope you all will be a great best friends to your best friend. do not make them hurt because of us and always make your friends happy always.
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
Monday, September 15, 2008
the way to build good friend online....
as you all know, the internet is becoming a very popular way of meeting people and making friends today. there are many different ways you can meet people on the internet, many different chat rooms, message boards and personal pages. maintaining these new found friendship can be difficult though and getting to know someone well over the internet and creating a lasting friendship is a hard task.
if you are looking to make friends using medium of the internet it is best to find out as much as you can about them early on. never give out too personal information on yourself. although the person you are chatting with may seem trustworthy, you never really know whom or what is at the other end of the conversation, so be aware..
internet friendship are like any other friendship in the fact that to be maintained you have to work on them. if you are expecting to make a good friendship on the internet, you cannot just log in every few month when you are bored and expect your friend to welcome you with open arms. if you are looking to make the friendship work, chat, email, keep in contact with the person and get to know more about them and build trust. ask the person question and share information about yourself but never give detail that put you at risk, such as your address and phone number.
be prepared when you meet or call your internet friends. remember that all you will know about this person is what they have told you and they could be lying. they may not necessarily look or sound or be like what they say they are, and you may be disappointed.
friendship come and go and this may end up being the case with someone of your internet friendship. it is good for you to make many friends but be aware some friends that are cannot be trusted or you will be a victim..be aware... think about this deeply before you make any friends online or not...friensd will show how we are in the future.. and keep smiling.
if you are looking to make friends using medium of the internet it is best to find out as much as you can about them early on. never give out too personal information on yourself. although the person you are chatting with may seem trustworthy, you never really know whom or what is at the other end of the conversation, so be aware..
internet friendship are like any other friendship in the fact that to be maintained you have to work on them. if you are expecting to make a good friendship on the internet, you cannot just log in every few month when you are bored and expect your friend to welcome you with open arms. if you are looking to make the friendship work, chat, email, keep in contact with the person and get to know more about them and build trust. ask the person question and share information about yourself but never give detail that put you at risk, such as your address and phone number.
be prepared when you meet or call your internet friends. remember that all you will know about this person is what they have told you and they could be lying. they may not necessarily look or sound or be like what they say they are, and you may be disappointed.
friendship come and go and this may end up being the case with someone of your internet friendship. it is good for you to make many friends but be aware some friends that are cannot be trusted or you will be a victim..be aware... think about this deeply before you make any friends online or not...friensd will show how we are in the future.. and keep smiling.
Friday, September 5, 2008
new experience.....:)
Hi....
today i want to share new experience to you all...for me it is very interesting and fun..last week our group TITAS(Tamadun Islam Dan Tamadun Asia) have done our project..our project is visit village Bukit Sagu 2 at Kuantan...the activities that we have done is very fun an interesting..we start our journey at 7.30 am by bus and 10 member of our group..we arrived there at 8.00 am..the journey take only half an hour from UMP...as we arrived there we are welcome by Pengurus FELDA, En. Abdul Manan and his assistant En. Kamarul and they take me to Dewan Orang Ramai...actually, on that day they have their own agenda and activity that clash with our activity..but we still can do our project...
First activity, we go to SEK REN BUKIT SAGU 2 at 8.30 am to 10.30 am because there is activity for UPSR student..it is Majlis Titian Ilmu Jalinan Kasih Tahun 6, between the upsr student and their parent..there we are so lucky because we can get close with standard 6 student and we have a chance to share our experience with them and motivate them to success in their study and strive for the best in their life do not their parents sacrifice for them.
then we go back to Dewan Besar to involved in Majlis Seminar Kepimpinan Akademik 2008 for villager of FELDA Bukit Sagu 2 from 10.30 am until 12.30 pm... from this activity we can know about FELDA deeply and we can know how far development of FELDA in our country. we also appreciate them, because they give us a chance to show a slide show about our university for villager at Bukit Sagu 2 village.we are very excited to tell them about our ump.
after that, in 1.30 pm, they have invited us to visit "Kilang Batik" and ' Kilang Kertas'. it is so unique because they use recycle material. they use banana trunk. at kilang batik, we have opportunity to make our drawing at ' kain batik'. all of us try to do it. it is look easy but it is vey difficult actually. it need us to pay more attention to do it to avoid the colour are not spread.
after that we go to view room of 'Batik' and we have opportunity to try 'Batik' there. we are so happy.
then, we go to 'Kilang Kertas' that is beside 'Kilang Batik'. there, the owner showed us how to make a paper from banana trunk. it is so unique and we have not seen it before this. the process is so easy and did no use high cost.the paper are to make a lamp or lava lamp. it is so beautiful and very colourful. it have the various type of colour and shape and size and the price between RM35-RM200.
in the evening, after prayed and have some tea time we are invited to watch a 'WAU BULAN' contest. this contest is so fun and there we can see how close the relationship between them. we are also so excited to watch this contest because we have not seen this contest before in our village. the game is so unique and very traditional.
at 5.30 pm, after have a great time, we have to go back to college.although we are very sad, but we have to. but we are not back at college with free hand. one of the villager and he is one of participant at wau bulan contest have give us a wau as a memory. we are appreciate that.at 6.15 pm we have arrived at college. although we are so tired but we are so fun and have a lot of nice memory there..i will remember this till the end because this is the first time i go and do activities with the villager...
today i want to share new experience to you all...for me it is very interesting and fun..last week our group TITAS(Tamadun Islam Dan Tamadun Asia) have done our project..our project is visit village Bukit Sagu 2 at Kuantan...the activities that we have done is very fun an interesting..we start our journey at 7.30 am by bus and 10 member of our group..we arrived there at 8.00 am..the journey take only half an hour from UMP...as we arrived there we are welcome by Pengurus FELDA, En. Abdul Manan and his assistant En. Kamarul and they take me to Dewan Orang Ramai...actually, on that day they have their own agenda and activity that clash with our activity..but we still can do our project...
First activity, we go to SEK REN BUKIT SAGU 2 at 8.30 am to 10.30 am because there is activity for UPSR student..it is Majlis Titian Ilmu Jalinan Kasih Tahun 6, between the upsr student and their parent..there we are so lucky because we can get close with standard 6 student and we have a chance to share our experience with them and motivate them to success in their study and strive for the best in their life do not their parents sacrifice for them.
then we go back to Dewan Besar to involved in Majlis Seminar Kepimpinan Akademik 2008 for villager of FELDA Bukit Sagu 2 from 10.30 am until 12.30 pm... from this activity we can know about FELDA deeply and we can know how far development of FELDA in our country. we also appreciate them, because they give us a chance to show a slide show about our university for villager at Bukit Sagu 2 village.we are very excited to tell them about our ump.
after that, in 1.30 pm, they have invited us to visit "Kilang Batik" and ' Kilang Kertas'. it is so unique because they use recycle material. they use banana trunk. at kilang batik, we have opportunity to make our drawing at ' kain batik'. all of us try to do it. it is look easy but it is vey difficult actually. it need us to pay more attention to do it to avoid the colour are not spread.
after that we go to view room of 'Batik' and we have opportunity to try 'Batik' there. we are so happy.
then, we go to 'Kilang Kertas' that is beside 'Kilang Batik'. there, the owner showed us how to make a paper from banana trunk. it is so unique and we have not seen it before this. the process is so easy and did no use high cost.the paper are to make a lamp or lava lamp. it is so beautiful and very colourful. it have the various type of colour and shape and size and the price between RM35-RM200.
in the evening, after prayed and have some tea time we are invited to watch a 'WAU BULAN' contest. this contest is so fun and there we can see how close the relationship between them. we are also so excited to watch this contest because we have not seen this contest before in our village. the game is so unique and very traditional.
at 5.30 pm, after have a great time, we have to go back to college.although we are very sad, but we have to. but we are not back at college with free hand. one of the villager and he is one of participant at wau bulan contest have give us a wau as a memory. we are appreciate that.at 6.15 pm we have arrived at college. although we are so tired but we are so fun and have a lot of nice memory there..i will remember this till the end because this is the first time i go and do activities with the villager...
Wednesday, September 3, 2008
first ramadhan...
this is the second time i'm fasting not with my family...
the first time i'm fasting at matriculation last year, year 2007...
there is a story that i can't forget and it is very sad... you know what???... it happen on the first day
of ramadhan after class...
at 5.30 pm, after class, my roomate and i want to go to buy some food for break fast...so, we go to the cafe and very surprised that are so many people que, and the que was very long...so, we decided go to 'bazar ranadhan' to buy some food for break fast.. and you know what had happen after that are very sad for us..the 'bazar ramadhan' has closed and many of food there have been sold..it is so sad, and we are thinking how to solve this problem and the time for break fast only have 45 minutes and we do not have any food to eat...so, we go to see our guard to allow us to go out to buy some food for break fast but the answer is very disappointed.. we are no allowed to go out and we just decided to eat anything at room.. we just go back to our room and just waiting time for break fast..while waiting i feel that very sad and in my mind just think about home and if i am at home i'm sure i can eat, that time i am really miss my mom's food.. and you know what we are eating for breakfast?? we are just eating a piece of bread and a glass of milo..and some my friend just eating maggi, instant noodles because not enough time to buy food...
i will remember this experience..
the first time i'm fasting at matriculation last year, year 2007...
there is a story that i can't forget and it is very sad... you know what???... it happen on the first day
of ramadhan after class...
at 5.30 pm, after class, my roomate and i want to go to buy some food for break fast...so, we go to the cafe and very surprised that are so many people que, and the que was very long...so, we decided go to 'bazar ranadhan' to buy some food for break fast.. and you know what had happen after that are very sad for us..the 'bazar ramadhan' has closed and many of food there have been sold..it is so sad, and we are thinking how to solve this problem and the time for break fast only have 45 minutes and we do not have any food to eat...so, we go to see our guard to allow us to go out to buy some food for break fast but the answer is very disappointed.. we are no allowed to go out and we just decided to eat anything at room.. we just go back to our room and just waiting time for break fast..while waiting i feel that very sad and in my mind just think about home and if i am at home i'm sure i can eat, that time i am really miss my mom's food.. and you know what we are eating for breakfast?? we are just eating a piece of bread and a glass of milo..and some my friend just eating maggi, instant noodles because not enough time to buy food...
i will remember this experience..
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